Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Mum's agreed to Morning access visits

Wonderful news, babycakes' Mum has agreed to morning visits to make my life easier...I explained in the contact book that its actually for baby's sake not mine, actually fternoon visits suit me time wise better but its not whats best for me, my concern is whats best for baby.
Babycakes always comes home with half a bottle of formula left over and when I try to open the lid to dispose of the milk I can hardly twist it undone and I am one strong gal...on a few occasions I wrote to explain that the lid on the bottle should only just be closed to firm not tight as it creates a vacuum and baby can't suck the milk.
I have been getting a little frustrated as she doesn't seem to be listening and not only does baby come home tired and crabby but he is also hungry and so I again wrote a message to Mum, I worried it sounded a bit curt but she has to get it through her head so that baby is nourished and hydrated whilst out.
Baby's mum sounds sweet in her correspondance, she wants to provide for him by purchasing his clothes and nappies and whatever else I need for him, she always expresses how thankful she is to me for caring for him and she loves him to bits, I can tell but I know the drugs are too strong an influence in her life and there is no way she is giving them up... so what will become of babycakes?

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